Visits

When you visit with members whose minds are not clear, you never know what a person might say or what mood they might be in. The last few have been interesting. Here are some examples:

Senior A
I spend a couple minutes reading the Bible and explaining it. Though not saying anything, he nods to what I say, seeming to understand. I am somewhat surprised. After having these few solemn moments thinking that I’ve somehow been able to reach him, I stand up. He immediately remarks, “I see you have those,” as he points to my side pant pockets. “Those are good.”

Senior B
When I first come to him, I ask how he’s doing. He smiles and lets his bottom false teeth stick out to make this hilarious grin. Then the nurse comes along and says, “Do the top one”. He does the top one for her. He is sitting beside another senior lady and says, “Here’s my friend”. He taps her on the arm. When I sit down beside him, he pretends to elbow me in the ribs. What a clown – he’s obviously in a good mood.

Senior C
When I am just about finished visiting him, I take out my Bible. He says, “I see that you have a Bible. I like the Bible. I don’t understand why people don’t believe in the Bible.” (This is a very typical conversation with him). I asked him if he’s been reading his Bible. He says “Yes”. Upon reflection, “But, I don’t read the Bible every day.” He pauses with a serious look. “But I should.”
After reading a portion with him, I say, “Ok, I am going to close in prayer with you.” He says, “Oh, I don’t pray.” (We’re outside in a public court – perhaps it’s not the normal place to prayer.)

Though some of these things are humorous, it is very sad when the mind is gone and is a trial for the person and the family. However, it is good to know that there is nothing that can separate us from the love of Christ, not death, disease or disorientation (Romans 8:38, 39). God keeps His people!